Jesus once said, ‘By their fruit you will recognise them.’
This was certainly true for Lam Vuong, who first encountered the Christian faith through the quiet witness and everyday fruit of the people around him: Lutheran teachers who spoke openly of their hope, a boss whose integrity matched his words and friends whose faith was evident in how they lived and worked.
Born in Vietnam into a Buddhist family, Lam grew up in a home where worshipping ancestors was an important part of spiritual life. His mother, who had been educated in a French Catholic school, valued the discipline and structure she had experienced there and later sought similar schooling for her children.
As Lam grew older, he encountered Christians whose faith was expressed quietly but consistently. Lutheran teachers spoke openly about their beliefs, and later, in the workplace, he noticed the same integrity in colleagues whose faith shaped the way they led and worked.
Over time, that quiet witness sparked Lam’s curiosity. ‘They practised what the Bible preached,’ Lam reflects. ‘They walked the talk.’
Lam says it was their daily conduct and down-to-earth nature that made the greatest impression. Seeing colleagues live out their faith in ordinary workplace interactions showed him that belief was not just something people talked about, but something they lived.
He also began reflecting more deeply on life and faith. The deaths of close relatives made him wonder about questions many people wrestle with: Why does suffering exist? Why does God allow violence? Is there an afterlife, and will loved ones meet again?
The search became more personal when Lam and his wife Serina began exploring schooling options for their sons. Through friends, they were introduced to Concordia College and St John’s Lutheran School in Unley, in suburban Adelaide. Although their son had already been enrolled elsewhere, meeting principal Michael Paech left a strong impression.
‘He was particularly engaging, down to earth and caring,’ Lam says. ‘You could feel a genuine vibe about him, and we immediately knew this was the school and environment we wanted our boys in.’
Around the same time, the family began attending St John’s Lutheran Church in Unley. Lam remembers being struck by the calm atmosphere of worship.
‘Everyone was welcoming,’ he says. ‘We just wanted to go somewhere that was traditional and authentic.’
When they were invited to join an Alpha course – which explores the basics of the Christian faith – at the church, Lam and Serina decided to attend.
‘It was casual – friendly people, no pressure. We talked a lot and asked lots of questions. It made us feel part of the family.’
Through those conversations and relationships, their understanding of faith gradually deepened, along with their sense of belonging within the church community.
‘The “why” of having God as part of our lives clicked with us,’ Lam says.
When it came to baptism, Lam says he felt both eager and uncertain. The step was ‘a bit daunting’, he says, and he was ‘not sure what to expect’, but it also felt like the right time.
Looking back now, Lam says faith has brought him a deep sense of reassurance.
‘I feel that God is closer, and having a father look over you, to guide and bless – a strong presence in times of joy and sadness,’ Lam says.
Today, Lam describes church as ‘a sense of family in faith’ and ‘a sense of belonging to a faithful community’. Away from the noise and pressures of everyday life, he says it offers ‘a place of reflection and prayer and a safe community’.
Faith has also shaped the way he notices God at work in everyday life.
‘God turns up when I need help the most and also when I seek guidance,’ he says. ‘Messages come in different forms and from people, but you know God is at work.’
Certain Bible stories have taken on special meaning for him, including the parable of the talents, Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness and the parable of the lost sheep.
Looking ahead, Lam hopes his family will continue to grow in faith and remain connected to the congregation that welcomed them.
For those curious about faith but unsure where to begin, his advice is simple: ‘Ask a friend who is attending church, tag along, ask questions, have an open mind and open heart. Avoid the naysayers,’ he says.
For Lam, seeing faith lived out in the lives of others was the simple beginning of his own journey.

