by Helen Brinkman
Early in the life of the Christian church, Paul sent a message to the congregation in the seaport of Corinth in southern Greece: ‘Keep busy always in your work for the Lord, since you know that nothing you do in the Lord’s service is ever useless.’
About 30 years ago, that same verse – 1 Corinthians 15:58 – was stuck onto the family fridge of Lyall and Lois Kupke. It was a note of encouragement from their teenage son Tim to his busy mum.
It was a thoughtful reminder during a very busy time for the family which had not long returned to live in South Australia after almost two decades in Walla Walla, in the NSW Riverina. Lois was working as a family support worker at an emergency family shelter, run by the Lutheran Church, which provided temporary accommodation for families in need. Lyall had started as the LCA’s Archivist. And their two sons were in high school at Adelaide’s Concordia College.
Lois recalls the challenges of her job, which brought her into contact with a broad spectrum of families in need. ‘It certainly opened my eyes, and I could see how many people were in need of God in their lives’, she says.
Meanwhile, Lyall had become the first full-time, first lay person and first archivally trained director of Lutheran Archives. It was a big change after 27 years of teaching, but a move close to his heart as custodian of the church’s stories.
Lyall and Lois met in 1972, as teachers at Concordia College, where Lois taught German and English, and Lyall was a history and mathematics teacher. The couple both worked on the school magazine, with Lyall doing the proofreading – a skill he continues to use to this day in a volunteer capacity as a proofreader for The Lutheran.
Two years after their marriage in 1974, Lyall and Lois moved to teach at St Paul’s College in Walla Walla, New South Wales, where they lived for 19 years and raised their two sons, John and Tim. Their time in Walla Walla was marked by a deep connection to the local church and community, and a love for the natural beauty of the area. They lived in a farmhouse on the edge of the Gum Swamp Reserve, surrounded by birdlife and an orchard with 36 fruit trees. ‘We went thinking we’d stay five or six years but stayed for 19 years’, says Lyall.
At age 49, Lyall’s lifelong passion for history led to a career change. It shouldn’t have been a surprise when you consider that he started studying genealogies at the ripe age of seven, spurred by the coronation of Queen Elizabeth II in 1953.
‘That got me interested in the genealogy of kings and queens … so I started looking through an old family encyclopedia’, he says. ‘I was only in grade three at school and I would have been seven years old. Seven-year-olds can be very inquisitive, and I had a very good teacher who encouraged a lot of inquiry.’
Lyall dedicated 19 years as LCA Archivist before retiring in 2014, including overseeing the Archives’ major move from North Adelaide to Bowden. ‘The Archives are the memory of the church. They contain the story of God at work with his people in the church here in Australia’, Lyall says.
He still returns there twice a week as a volunteer. Lyall is also researching the history of the family’s home congregation, Zion Lutheran Church at Glynde, in suburban Adelaide, which will celebrate the centenary of its dedication in August 2025. In retirement, Lyall and Lois remain busy serving through Zion’s community-focused activities, including language groups, a creche, a music program for preschoolers and tidying the church garden.
Lois teaches one of the Saturday English classes that attract people from many different nationalities. ‘Whether they are Koreans, Sudanese, Chinese, or Iranian, a lot of people who come in don’t know much about Christianity, and we might be one link in the chain to help them come closer to God’, she says.
Lyall’s passion for history, particularly the history of the Wendish people, has also led to his involvement with the Wendish Society for more than 30 years. He is president of the society in SA which helps preserve the history and heritage of the Wendish people, who were among the early Lutheran settlers in Australia from 1848 onward.
Lyall and Lois celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in January 2024. Through the busyness of their lives, they come back to the message from one of their wedding hymns (Lutheran Hymnal 579): ‘Where’er I go, whate’er my task, the counsel of my God I ask.’
Lois reflects: ‘You don’t have to be brilliant at everything before you have a go. If you say “Lord, help me today to do what you want me to do to be of benefit to someone else”, he will give you what you need … just have a go.’
